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I remember how MH told us that Christmas Day was DS’s favorite day of the year. And that she transitioned on that very day.

The strength coming from these two amazing people has been (and continues to be) unbelievable. The thought comes to me from time to time that at one time before I ever even knew of their existence, they were navigating what we have all come to know.

But their response to that experience was this… This site… Helping so many others get through what they had been through, and had overcome. Considering my own recent personal loss, I find it unbelievable that they were able to put so much energy and effort and love toward something outside themselves.

I have spent the last little bit rereading DS’s last thread, requesting "MOJO" for her health situation in 2016. How she took the time to respond to our well wishes and support. How she shared the love that she and MH obviously had for each other. Her amazing strength and perseverance.

How blessed we were that DS chose to take us along with her as much as possible.

How blessed we are to have this site for practically any and every need we face - related to the central theme… Or not.

MH… I am certain that I was not the only one here thinking of you and DS during this Christmas season.

Simply………Thank you.

[This message edited by WhatsRight at 11:22 AM, Saturday, January 4th]

What a gracious tribute, WR. DS passed before I came to SI and am sorry for not knowing her.

SO has been as helpful to me as any therapist and helped me to stand up to a therapist. Wouldn't be as healed without the support from everyone here.

..I couldn't agree more with your post. Both lf and I had the privilege of knowing DS through this site. The advice she gave us was an all important ingredient to the success we had in dealing with this shit show in our life. We wouldn't have made it without this site, I have no doubt in my mind! Anyone here who knew her, miss her like crazy!!

.. MH...Thank you, thank you, thank you!

smy

DS was so kind to me. She was humble and strong and wonderfully funny, and a huge support for new WSs especially. She really cared and we became good friends during the couple of years that I was super active on SI, many moons ago. We even got to hang out for a weekend in Austin when a bunch of Texan SI folks met on 6th Street. I loved her. I miss her. Hugs to MH.