Topic is Sleeping. 
			 
				    				 Theevent (original poster  member #85259)		posted at 11:24 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2025	
			 
	Came across a song on you tube "How numb I feel - sad song" look it up. 
It really hits home with how I've felt the last year after my wife's betrayal. I'm guessing it will hit him for many of us.
The lyrics are very poetic and strangely accurate to our situation. 
 
			 			Me - BH D-day 4/2024 age 42
Her - WW EA 1/2023, PA 7/2023 - 6/2024, age 40 
Married 18 years, 
2 teenage children,
Trying to reconcile		
	 	 			 
				    				 Theevent (original poster  member #85259)		posted at 11:43 PM on Thursday, July 17th, 2025	
			 
	And for those trying to reconcile this song hits home for me:
"I choose you - a love that defies time" 
 
			 			Me - BH D-day 4/2024 age 42
Her - WW EA 1/2023, PA 7/2023 - 6/2024, age 40 
Married 18 years, 
2 teenage children,
Trying to reconcile		
	 	 			 
				    				Asterisk ( member #86331)		posted at 7:38 PM on Friday, July 18th, 2025	
			 
	Holy smokes, Thanks TheeVent
For sharing this powerful work of song art. Hits home to an old me that the new me will never forget the feelings I silently held post D-day. 
 
			 			Wedding:1973
WW's Affair: 1986-1988
D-Day: June 1991
Reconciliation in process for 32 years
Living in a marriage and with a wife that I am proud of: 52 years		
	 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.