fareast ( Moderator #61555) posted at 12:55 AM on Thursday, September 17th, 2026
You are still so early on from your Dday
Your going to be on an emotional roller-coaster. Don't worry about being judged here. You will receive support here no matter what happens with your M. Its your life. This is a good place to vent and get feedback.
Never bother with things in your rearview mirror. Your best days are on the road in front of you.
beetrain6 (original poster new member #87705) posted at 3:14 AM on Thursday, September 17th, 2026
Hey Nuke
WW and OM’s spouse communicated more on Monday and my WW seems to feel "less bad."
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WW and OM’s spouse communicated more on Monday and my WW seems to feel "less bad."
Can you please expound on this Beetrain? Reads as if your WW feels the OBS is a b*tch and she's glad she was able to hurt the OBS, is this it or is it something else?
I think my WW felt better by letting OM's wife know that she's not a bad person, but she is. I firmly believe that she felt worse for the OM's situation than our own. But, through counseling, I kind of u/s that to a certain extent. But....she is not nearly the person I fell in love with, it's just me getting enough courage to pull the cord
