Topic is Sleeping. 
			 
				    				 Shehawk (original poster  member #68741)		posted at 3:07 AM on Sunday, August 6th, 2023	
			 
	Thanks everyone.  I will post more when I feel able.  An active unrepentant wayward is capable of inflicting unspeakable damage.  The divorce process is no exception. 
 
			 			"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!		
	 	 			 
				    				josiep ( member #58593)		posted at 10:23 PM on Sunday, August 6th, 2023	
			 
	So glad to hear it. Congratulations!
I still haven’t made it up north to visit my aunts, but when I do, I’ll be in touch so we can get together. And you’ll bring your pictures from your trip. We’ll talk about the next one! 
 
			 			BW, was 67; now 74; M 45 yrs., T 49 yrs.DDay#1, 1982; DDay#2, May, 2017. D July, 2017		
	 	 			 
				    				Copingmybest ( member #78962)		posted at 1:19 PM on Monday, August 7th, 2023	
			 
	Way to go Shehawk! An individual who is on the honorable path cannot be stopped, nor should they be trifled with.  I’m glad you’ve found your power!  Now I hope you can forge a new happy life from here on out!  So happy for you. 
 
			 	 			 
				    				Forks027 ( member #59996)		posted at 2:07 AM on Wednesday, August 9th, 2023	
			 
	
He told me if I left him he would break me. He did not succeed.
Hell yeah! 
 
			 	 			 
				    				leafields ( Guide #63517)		posted at 4:22 AM on Wednesday, August 9th, 2023	
			 
	Congratulations! So glad it's final. 
Ready for an update when you are. 
Funny thing is, I cried when it was final. Let yourself feel the feels. 
 
			 			BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21		
	 	 			 
				    				fareast ( Moderator #61555)		posted at 1:37 PM on Wednesday, August 9th, 2023	
			 
	Super congrats!  So happy this ordeal is finally over for you.  Your EX-WH underestimated your strength and resilience.  Good luck moving forward. 
 
			 			Never bother with things in your rearview mirror.  Your best days are on the road in front of you.		
	 	 			 
				    				 Shehawk (original poster  member #68741)		posted at 5:40 AM on Friday, September 1st, 2023	
			 
	I am not able to comment about the outcome of the divorce publicly but would welcome any support/private messages/prayers if I am allowed to ask for that (will edit message if mods say it’s not allowed). 
 
			 			"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!		
	 	 			 
				    				 Shehawk (original poster  member #68741)		posted at 5:55 AM on Friday, September 1st, 2023	
			 
	All I can really say publicly right now is that an unrepentant still active wayward is capable of unspeakable things. 
 
			 			"It's a slow fade...when you give yourself away" so don't do it!		
	 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.