How?
I've been a registered user for just over a year, but a lurker for years, but something has always baffled me, when it comes to infidelity and that is, to those who caught their spouse in the act(whether it be making out or a full blown porn scene), how can anyone in their right mind stay with that person?...
Now some might say, well there are different degrees to what you may have walked in on(say for example kissing), which many may forgive, but I can't fathom how that makes it any better, as it's still a big betrayal in my book and I see kissing as a very intimate act regardless...
Then there is the location of where the betrayed spouse caught them and worse yet if it was in their own bed...
It's just food for thought as I have tried to wrap my head around the amount of stomach a betrayed spouse in that position has and have literally thrown their self-respect out the window and have taken back a cheater like that...
I think the excuse of oh they have kids together or have been married for umpteen years, to me makes it ten times worse and that argument just doesn't hold water in my book...
Would love to hear your thoughts on this type of betrayal...
15 comments posted: Friday, December 6th, 2024
