1 year affair
I found out 2 years ago that my wife had another man on her Whatsapp called a woman's name..All history deleted..After confronting her, it was an X work colleague that I knew fancied her.
Seemingly they never met etc and it was 6 months of nothing but friendship.I was devastated, and very hurt..I was promised I knew everything and we tried to make our marriage work..
2 years later, I finally found out his wife's name and made contact..All unfolded over a couple of days, found out from his wife they had indeed met, and her husband said they kissed..
I ended up calling this guy and he admitted a lot more..I confronted my wife, and at this stage she was caught!
She told me all... 1 year relationship, until I found out.. met several times for intimacy.. Seemingly she didn't enjoy it and only performed to keep him happy, as she really valued their friendship..
It been over for 2 years now with no contact, and I'm sure this is correct..
We have young kids, she has swore it was the biggest mistake of her life and will spend the rest of her life making this up to me and winning back my trust..
I'm a mess now and so torn on what to do... I do believe her, and I can see why she kept lying because of how bad this all was, and she was afraid of loosing me..
How can I move on from this?
26 comments posted: Thursday, January 2nd, 2025
