Just Exposed…now what?
So here I am 9 days after being exposed. 9 days of good decisions. I’m trying to understand how to convey to my spouse that I now see how devastating all of this has been on her.
One of the things she says is that I am seeking a reconciliation with her only because I don’t want to be alone. Well, isn’t that part of the reason we all seek reconciliation? I don’t want to be alone, I want to be with her.
I also have great reservations about her willingness to attempt a reconciliation. I think she just wants to drag out the process in order to seek revenge and retribution.
Any thoughts about these, my initial reactions, would be helpful.
I am 57, she is 45. This is both our second marriage and we’ve been married 7 years.
2 comments posted: Sunday, January 5th, 2025
