I need some serious advice!
I just recently found out that my husband was going on business trips and while away, he was soliciting escorts. I (after 3 years of marriage).. went through his phone (I remembered his password) and what I read has completely confused me, angered me, and definitely destroyed ALL trust. He has always told me "you are the best thing that ever happened to me" "we are the perfect couple" blah blah. Now THIS. I confronted him and told him I knew everything. He of course had to come clean and it was awful. I encouraged him to go on a business trip so I could have "space" and think. While he was gone, I packed my things, loaded a moving truck and I left him. This all happened really quickly. I moved several states away, and I have incredible family and friend support. I also met with a divorce attorney and he’s going to be served any day now. My issue is: He keeps emailing/texting/calling to BEG me NOT to throw everything away and that he’s currently getting help for both his "alcoholism" and potentially other issues when diagnosed. I really don’t think I have any forgiveness in me. I already have gotten myself up and out of this and I’m actually starting to feel FREE and happy. I would love to know if anyone has any thoughts on this or has been through a similar situation?
8 comments posted: Monday, April 21st, 2025
