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So I guess this should come as no surprise that women who choose to take part in an affair are just all-around terrible people. But when I was googling my FWH's APs way back then, I discovered that one had run over a teenager in a crosswalk and killed her about five years prior. I then somewhat recently googled the women again and discovered that ANOTHER AP, years prior, ran a stop sign and killed a dad-of-five who was on a motorcycle. TWO APs have killed people?! TWO!?! I wonder how many more have done these really horrendous things but the info just hasn't populated on my search engine yet.

As far as I can tell, neither AP did jail time, but one had to pay (read: daddy had to pay; she was a teenager) an extremely large settlement to the family of the victim.

If I had taken the life of a human being, even if it were a total accident, I would spend my life being a good-deed-doer to make it up for it. Yet, these women decided manslaughter wasn't going far enough and that they should keep trying to destroy innocent people. (Their plan is working.)

I guess it just goes back to how upset I am about the lack of justice in infidelity, and now...also... for the lack of justice in the criminal system. They get to be impatient or inattentive and cause the deaths of innocent people but just continue on with their lives as if nothing happened. It's just not fair.

[This message edited by Revenger at 2:35 AM, Friday, January 3rd]

Y'all watch Snapped? It's crazy what some APs and even what some spouses will do. Unless they do the work to be a better person, they remain the person they are.

Sometimes, we can be involved with people who are pretty terrible.

It's WILD that two of your H's APs accidentally killed people. That's seriously crazy.

I can't imagine the depths of emotional turmoil that one would experience having killed someone. It could lead to a life of good deeds, or it could lead to a whole string of bad acts committed out of pain. I'd be willing to bet there's some substance abuse thrown into the mix.

The AP in my case obviously makes stupid decisions, too. She's got at least one DUI, a personal injury case against her that went to jury trial, and a hot check charge. I check her address every so often; she still lives in the same shitty house, so I doubt that she's doing much to get her life together.

Every WS/AP is dysfunctional and selfish, but not all WS/APs are all-around terrible people.