Webbit (original poster member #84517) posted at 2:56 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2025
I like to share on here when I feel I have small wins in moving forward because you guys are the only ones who really understand small victories.
Today on the way to work I put on an old playlist from my Spotify library. What I didn’t realise it was the playlist I had made when trying to pick all the music for our wedding (which was not even three years before d-day 🤦🏽♀️).
Anyways, I would normally turn it off or at least skip the two main ‘love’ songs from the day but today I just said to myself ‘fuck it’ I’m going to listen to these regardless of how uncomfortable it made me feel.
Well happy to report - I sang along merrily and realised they didn’t affect me at all. I realised I don’t associate them with ‘us’ anymore but just songs I like and will listen to from now on. 💚
leafields ( Guide #63517) posted at 3:39 AM on Monday, January 6th, 2025
BW M 34years, Dday 1: March 2018, Dday 2: August 2019, D final 2/25/21
