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That doesn’t work for texts sent with imessages, though, does it? Since it sends over wifi?

Hi darkdusty I just wanted to send hugs im kind of going through similar with WH still in contact with OW.

I hope you are ok .

[This message edited by Kittycatkitty at 6:42 AM, Thursday, December 18th]

darkdustythoughts,

That doesn’t work for texts sent with imessages, though, does it? Since it sends over wifi?

That's right. And a number can be blocked, but can easily be unblocked when you leave the house and reblocked before you get home, and if they are imessages, they won't show up on text logs through phone company website.

Basically Apple has built a failsafe infidelity hiding system with the imessage feature.

*hard lessons learned...*

Brutal

If it would help you, the Life360 app with all the features turned on would track everything that phone does. She’s have to get a second hidden phone at that point.

She has location sharing enabled with both me and my mother, her phone and laptop are attached to my FindMy account, there's an AirTag in her wallet and a second one somewhere in the mess of her car, and I can see the GPS data from her car through its key app. Certainly she could get around that if she wanted to, but turning anything off would be suspicious and there is a high probability of her forgetting at least one of those things. We put them in place over the years for safety and convenience, without any protest from her. The problem is, she has hotel accomodations whenever she travels for work, so even if I can see that she is at the hotel, it's where she's supposed to be. I just can't be certain she's there alone. She is getting better about letting me know where she is going ahead of time, though, and she usually spends a lot of time calling and texting me after work. It doesn't prove anything, but it does make me feel better.

[This message edited by darkdustythoughts at 6:53 PM, Thursday, December 18th]