Topic is Sleeping. 
			 
				    				 SatyaMom (original poster  member #83919)		posted at 2:36 PM on Monday, February 17th, 2025	
			 
	I had moved over to the reconciliation group because you know…I had the " recovery poster boy" until last Friday …..now am I just found out or general or ? He’s out of the house and the damage is irreparable 
 
			 	 			 
				    				DRSOOLERS ( member #85508)		posted at 2:45 PM on Monday, February 17th, 2025	
			 
	Relatively new here myself but I'd suppose: Divorce/Separation 
 
			 			Dr. Soolers - As recovered as I can be		
	 	 			 
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 3:10 PM on Monday, February 17th, 2025	
			 
	IMO:
Posting responses: wherever you think you have something to say to help other posters, within guidelines (like, BSes are not allowed to respond to WS threads with STOP signs or to respond to BS questions for WS).
Starting threads" wherever you think you'll get the responses you want within guidelines (like, BSes are not allowed to open threads in WS or to respond to BS questions for WS). 
 
			 			fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			 
				    				crazyblindsided ( member #35215)		posted at 9:07 PM on Monday, February 17th, 2025	
			 
	I would post in Divorce/Separation since you are ending the M. 
 
			 			fBS/fWS(me):52 Mad-hattered after DD (2008)
XWS:55 Serial Cheater, Diagnosed NPD
DD(22) DS(19)
XWS cheated the entire M spanning 19 years
Discovered D-Days 2006,2008,2012, False R 2014
Separated 9/2019; Divorced 8/2024		
	 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.