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Good to hear from you WTH.

Vocalion, On one hand, your son may not have your genes. On the other, I doubt he would have turned out like he did without your love and guidance. It's said that hurt people hurt people. I think that's true. But it also means loved people love people. You've passed love down through 3 generations. That's a good legacy. Congrats on the great-GC. May you stay healthy enough to play with and guide him/her!

My mom had a special connection with our GS, and she lived long enough that GS remembers her.

Hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas. So odd thought today, or maybe realization is more accurate. The thought of her A's crosses my mind today I guess because it was due. But something struck me this time. I don't remember what it was that lead me to finding out what she was up to. I know the how, it was finding emails between her and AP 1&2. But I don't remember what prompted me to look at her email that day. I don't remember was I suspicious and looking, or was I in her email for some other reason and stumbled across an email that didn't seem right? I really don't recall. I can go into great detail of everything following my finding that first email including what many of them said verbatim. It just really struck me as odd that whatever the moments before my finding out we're I just don't remember. I guess maybe it's the shock was so great that it was obliterated by what I found.

Anyway, just wanted to share with people I knew would understand. Happy new year and may it be a better one for all of us.

So I did end remembering what I think the reason was that I had looked in her email that lead to my finding out about her A's. I think what made me remember was probably because I looked back to the first of my journal here. It didn't go back that far but it did trigger me and brought a lot of feelings I had gotten past for a couple of days so not such a great idea. It did give me the idea though that maybe with wills and such (which we really need to do) I should add a little sealed envelope or something with my login information here and a note to read my journal so she can see what all that put me through. She probably wouldn't read it, and it might be a bit cruel so it's probably not a good idea.

I posted this in New Beginnings, but it should be here, I think.

The Universe patted me on the head and said "good boy"

I'm more than 10 years out from Dday. I don't come around here very often anymore, and unfortunately, I see a lot of new usernames in here.

I just wanted to pop in to share; XWW texted me to ask if I ever thought about getting back together because she does.

I managed to keep the petty little demon in me in check, and responded "No, I don't. I think we are a mismatch. I think we're doing a good job raising the kids, and I am content with the way things are."

I have 2 years to go until retirement (with my full pension and retirement assets) and the house the kids were born in, which I got by acting quickly to set her free to her new lover. Now, she's got a string of ex-boyfriends, is no longer as desirable as she once was (since there's no depth to her personality at all), and is pining to get back together with the controlling, boring, uncaring monster she cheated on.

I think I'll go on a little vacation next week with my new love. Me.

I salute you sir. You handled that with style and grace. Here's to you living your best life - without her.